Separation and attachment in higher education
Gerhart Rott: ATTACHMENT AND SEPARATION THEORY IN HIGHER
Peter Figge: ATTACHMENT STRATEGIES IN THERAPEUTIC RELATIONSHIPS. VALUING A LOOK AT BOTH SIDES OF THE DYAD
Susanna Maione and Alessandra Franceschini: CUORI - A PLACE FOR UNIVERSITY STUDENTS TO DISCOVER THEIR ADULTHOOD
Ann Conlon: THE TRANSITION INTO HIGHER EDUCATION. DEVELOPMENTAL ISSUES ENCOUNTERED BY STUDENTS
Ernst Frank: SEPARATION AND ATTACHMENT AND THE BASIC ABILITY OF DIFFERENTIATION & SUMMARISING IN ACADEMIC WORK
Mette Bauer and Trine Fredtoft: IN ORDER TO COMPLETE YOU HAVE TO SEPARATE
Ann Clara: UNIVERSITY LIFE AND THE DELAY OF ADULTHOOD
Graça Figueiredo Dias: DEVELOPMENTAL DIFFERENCES BETWEEN STUDENTS SEEKING AND NOT SEEKING PSYCHOLOGICAL COUNSELLING*
EDUCATION AND STUDENT COUNSELLING
This paper stress' the importance of understanding the current interaction of higher education and psychotherapy within students' contextually defined environment. This environment doesn't mirror an objective point of view but is always constructed in an individual world. It is a psychological context which is related to others e.g. learning environments and institutional settings.
Thanks to attachment theory (Bowlby, J. and Ainsworth, M . and others) we can better understand the ways interactions in early childhood influence the kind of context one creates as an adult . In students' lives, in their learning environment, and in higher education in general, transition processes play an import ant role. (e.g. entry into university, leaving the university). Within those transitions separation and attachment are newly balanced.
To clarify some of the risks and resources for these transitions the balancing process presents itself as a developmental perspective on student counselling and higher education in which both - student counselling and high education - might be realized as resources for each other.
Therapeutic research has well established the fact that the quality of the therapeutic relationship may be assumed to be one of the major factors responsible for therapy outcome (Grawe 1990a, b, 1994, Figge, 1980, 1982, 1999). Therapists in the process of therapy have been described by clients and outside raters, using different means such as questionnaires, pictures, tape, and video), and research has described connections between of therapist quality and therapeutic change. Recent publications have focused on aspects of the pre-therapy situation. On the influence regarding the expectation of clients towards the relationship to their future therapist and on the compatibility of attachment strategies of client and therapist (Höger 1995, 1996). Therapists offer professional types of well defined relationships, mostly dependent on the professional school they belong to, dependent on their professional experience or the therapeutic setting - and of course dependent on the therapists' personal background. Clients on the other hand are generally looking for professional help, and are mostly lacking any experience of this type of relationship. Thus their expectations and
wishes cover a wide range of conscious and unconscious contents. Client and
therapist have one thing in common though. They can both look back on their
individual backgrounds of personal attachment experiences. Usually the difference
between client and therapist can be found in the degrees to which they have
access to these experiences and have integrated them into their personality.Having been introduced to the subject of our conference by previous papers I would like to skip outlining the framework of attachment theory ( especially referring to the research of Bowlby (1987, 1988), Ainsworth (1978), and Main and their coworkers (1985). My personal interest as a clinical psychologist has lately
focused on the possible contribution of attachment theory to improve aspects
of therapy indication. In improving therapy prognosis it doesn't seem sufficient
taking into account if a certain type of therapy would be suitable for an individual client.On top of this it should be kept in mind that a therapeutic relationship is not only a meeting of two functions, that is of a therapist and a client but of two individuals with their different, highly personal attachment strategies and their respective representations. And I believe that the compatibility of these strategies - in whichever dynamic form - might have a decisive influence on the outcome of the therapy point of view but is always constructed in an individual world. It is a
psychological context which is related to others e.g. learning environments
and institutional settings. Thanks to attachment theory (Bowlby, J. and Ainsworth, M. and others) we can better understand the ways interactions in early childhood influence the kind of context one creates as an adult. In students' lives, in their learning environment, and in higher education in general, transition processes play an important role. (e.g. entry into university, leaving the university). Within those transitions separation and attachment are newly balanced. To clarify some of the risks and resources for these transitions the balancing process presents itself as a developmental perspective on student counselling and higher education in which both - student counselling and high education - might be realized as resources for each other.
In Italy the separation/ attachment phenomenon is more accentuated than in other European countries. Young people leave their parent's home very late, living, protected in a situation where they have no responsibility. The assuming of an adult identity is therefore postponed, as is also the moment of separation from the family and the autonomy of the young person. CUORI (University centre for counselling and information) a psychological counselling service of ESU (Organisation for the rights of study) is a neutral and undifferentiated place for college students. CUORI seeks to meet a student need to be looked after but the same time his/her need to be autonomous, encouraging his/her growth and exploration of his/her own resources and self-determination abilities. In this paper a few cases are presented that could explain the kind of counselling that our centre
offers to college students. Each case is presented bearing in mind the aforesaid
Italian separation/attachment phenomenon, considering also attachment in
its cross-cultural meaning.
Prijna F. van Duuren
A.T.M. Boekhorst
P.H.W.M. Deuss:
Group Psychotherapy with adolescents can be operationalised as a development oriented model of treatment. Adolescents who are teased by peers when they are 13 years old, do not attach themselves to the peer group. In the therapy group those teased students get the opportunity to attach to a peer group, and so develop their social and scholastic abilities. The subject of the present research project is the relationship of a good passage through the second false of attachment, what means attachment to the peer group, with study-attitude. Assessment scales have been used for the group therapy-clients on two different moments with an interval of half a year between them. The following scales have been used: a personality inventory (NVM, this is a shortened MMPI), a Dutch Autonomy scale and two study-behaviour scales. This paper presents the initial finding and a discussion of the relationship between study-attitude and group psychotherapy.
Jean Paul Broonen: ACADEMIC ACHIEVEMENT AND ATTACHMENT
Very little information is available about why, in French-speaking Universities so many students withdraw from or do not participate in support sessions during the academic year. Romainville (1992) and Broonen (1998) proposed hypotheses to explain why some or most of the students do not participate in helping sessions: self-reliance inside an individualistic society, instrumental attitude rooting in secondary school, self-handicapping, procrastination, external locus of control, etc. The present study aims at exploring the relationships between collective self-esteem and, firstly, participating in help sessions after failing in examinations,
and secondly, achievement in the next set of examinations by undergraduate
students. Data presented here pertain to the measure of students' collective
self-esteem as applied to the academic institution and include comparison
on that construct between students who participate in help sessions and students
who do not.
Declan Aherne: STUDENT STRESS IN THE CONTEXT OF ATTACHMENT AND SEPARATION
An exploration of the development of the dependence-independence
polarity of both male and female students. Kegan (1982) and others have
described the development of both dependence and independence in the young
adult. Gilligan (1982) highlighted differences in this aspect of development
between males and females. Aherne (1997) sugggested that student stress
for many students may involve struggle with this aspect of their development
e.g. male students many have more difficulty than females in forming relationships, whilst females may struggle more with separation issues. Aherne (1997) has proposed a profile of stressed students congruent with this aspect of development and stress. The aim of the current paper is to explore this matter in greater detail amongst students attending for counseling. Individual case studies
will be used regarding the nature of the students development of independence.
Included in the study will be an assessment of the therapeutic process in resolving any polarity issues.
This paper addresses the concept of transition within the context of the students' struggle to grow and develop - academically, emotionally and socially. As normal developmental processes, including separation and individuation are inevitably going to overlap with being a student, the academic and social commitments which are essential to university life force the student into facing those developmental issues which will cause difficulty if the individual is not ready to tackle them, or if they have become stuck at some point. A number of clinical vignettes are presented to illustrate the problems and symptoms which may arise if the transition into university reactivates unresolved conflicts of the past. This will
inevitably entail examining the quality of the students' attachment to their
family of origin, and of how they were helped or not within their family
to cope with earlier transitional phases in childhood and adolescence.
The present paper examines writing difficulties in the context of a disturbed in ego development. On the path from symbiosis to individuation (M. Mahler), ego develops through separation and attachment. For instance an extensive piece of written work requires the common ability to differentiate & summarize - on the one hand is the analyzing, making something precise, moving up closer to get to the details - and on the other hand at a distance is finding the essential and the main statement, making a well-formed and integrated complete structure. This is a basic academic ability, which has to been seen in context to the development of a well-formed and differentiated ego/identity and the crucial task of separation and of
establishing independence. An ability, in contrast to a saying. To see the wood - because of the trees.
Stig Poulsen: ATTACHMENT AND SEPARATION IN INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP PSYCHOTHERAPY
This paper examines the issue of separation and attachment in both individual and group psychtherapy. The paper begins by discussing object relations theory and attachment theory in particluar. The therapeutic alliance and the nature of the clients experience in psychotherapy are discussed in some detail in order to demonstrate the significance of attachment processes. The author then goes on to address group psychotherapy. He outlines the various models of group development and notes the fact that changes occur in the importance of different therapeutic factors in the course of the groups lifespan. Finally, the results are presented of interviews carried out with individual members of two groups, for students with procrastination problems and thesis anxiety. These results confirm the original hypothesis of the importance of separation and attachment issues for students working in groups but add some further complexity to the issue which the author attempts to resolve.
Students with thesis and essay anxiety often fear separation from parents and from university, which makes it difficult for them to attach themselves to a world outside the family and institutional boundaries. Helping them take the step to complete their thesis will enable them to a more grown up identity. Participating in a short term psychodynamic group may facilitate this process. In this paper the authors set out their experiences with short term psychodynamic groups for university students with procrastination and thesis anxiety, including the group-members evaluation of the previous two groups.
The present paper discusses University life in the context of it being a moratorium on development, facilitating the delay of development into adulthood. For many students, their registration at the university marks the beginning of their first prolonged separation from home. Learning to be alone, to turn this condition to profitable use and to enjoy it, is of major importance for students in order to be able to function autonomously as regards their studies. Obviously this is a very demanding task: homesickness, loneliness, depressive moods and lack of self confidence are frequent complaints among freshers, consulting in the University Mental Health Centre of the Vrije Universiteit Brussel. At the other end, those
who finish their studies have to try and find a place in the professional
world and in society in general. Some tend to postpone this last step, for
example by engaging in post-graduate studies or becoming members of the academic staff. An academic career may be an elegant solution of those who do not want to grow up completely and wish to stay in the protective environment
of the university.
The psychological separation from parents, the development of the capacity for love interaction and self-esteem consolidation are some of the developmental tasks of young people. This study examines the differences shown in the capacity to resolve these developmental tasks between students seeking and not seeking psychological counselling. Two scales evaluating important dimensions of autonomy construction and of capacity to establish love relationships, constructed by the author, together with the Rosenberg (1965) selfesteem scale, and a parental separation inventory (PSI; Hoffman, 1984), were applied to a sample of 315 university students not having sought counselling, and to a sample of 40 students having sought counselling. The results show the existence of significant differences in all those variables. The implications for counselling with university students are discussed.
This paper examines more thoroughly some of the ideas exposed in my communication "Assessment and treatment of university students with separation/attachment difficulties", made to the FEDORA Conference 1999.